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Stop it.

If you are not L or G, T, A, I,

Unless you’re bi, pan, if you can confidently,

Unquestioningly, inqueerly, clear say

That you are not gay, AKA you’re straight then stop coming out in your thumbnails, in your titles

In your clicky queerbait i hate.

You take October 11th as if it’s yours, it’s not.

This day is no way belongs to you

And you may be unaware since everything else does,

You get everything else-that’s your privilege.

Your she/her, him/his cis-ness goes unquestioned while i am an isthmus of mystery

surrounded …. NOPE, trapped between everyone else like you.

Note that no one stutters at your pronouns,

No one shudders at pictures of you and your partner’s wedding plans,

You are not a gender bender,

You were born with an orientation that happens to conform

With sexual norms and honestly, it feels wrong to me to admit,

But in the pit of my most truthful stomach

I cannot stomach how jealous i am of you.

How zealously jealous i am,

Of the judgement you are spared.

I’m scared,

That if i could taste the convenience

Of being a straight cishet,

I…might regret being me and that, THAT is why coming out years ago was…. SOOOOO HUGE

I mean HUGE

Trembling, tearful, tentatively,

Teetering on the tip of maybe losing everything, huge.

So when you inappropriately appropriate a piece, a moment of queer culture

So intimate to my personal narrative,

Ho-hoh, it rattles my bones. You encroach on what you do not understand,

And worse, exploit it,

Commercialize,

Capitalize,

Sensationalize,

Lies,

And saucy possibilities for social gain.

Believe when i came out i was not jazzed about clicks or cash,

Yet you can cavalierly brand a vlog as

“First Girl Kiss! OH MY GOD HAHA”

Or “Guys Am I Gay? Am I GAY?”

You film the platonic daydate with your mates still you pose for a faux-kiss?

Grab a thumbnail still a second sooner, then you both giggle and pull away?

Why?

Cause you’re NOT GAY!

You’re lazy,

And  frankly too uncreative to think of another way to get attention.

My coming out was accompanied by panic attacks.

Your fake coming out was born-out of disrespect for me,

Disrespect for your audience,

And the hope of more subscribers.

Talk about trivializing.

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Stop Coming Out by Ash Hardell

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8RcF5_LqUKc

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I just needed to have this on my account. I think it’s too good not to share.

So here it is. Enjoy.

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found this on insta and i felt the need to share it on tumblr as well so here it is

qcrip:

transcoranic:

acceptable ways to correct yourself if you misgender a trans person

• “I went to the store with her–him”
  
• “He and I–sorry she and I went to the movies”
  
• “He’s–I mean they’re a big fan of Marvel Comics”
  

not acceptable ways to correct yourself if you misgender a trans person

• “She really likes–oh my god I mean he, I’m so sorry, I just don’t have it down yet, you need to give me time, I mean, I’m getting it, I promise, it’s just so hard sometimes, and I don’t even know where that came from, and I’m so sorry, I really didn’t mean to, you just have to go easy on me, I’ve never done this before, it’s just, I’m getting it, it won’t happen again, it’s just hard, you get it, right?”
  

this has been a psa

Also a tip: if this happens when said trans person isn’t in vicinity you don’t even really need to correct it that sentence. Just move on and use correct pronouns in the following sentences. Most people will just assume they misheard the pronoun the first time, and use the correct pronouns that you’re now using, and it’ll be much more discreet and therefore less likely to out someone. 

Likewise if someone uses the wrong pronouns for someone when they’re not there this also usually works. Rather than making a thing out of correcting them, therefore kinda having to out the person and/or open a conversation about gender, just continue using the right pronouns. Usually, after a few sentences they’ll copy you just out of habit, and again, it’s much more discreet. 

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bi-privilege:

bi-privilege:

please consider: never judging picky eaters ever

“there are people starving!” ok janet but when’s the last time you lectured a major grocery chain executive about corporate food waste

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thefingerfuckingfemalefury:

queen-of-ancapistan:

thefingerfuckingfemalefury:

puddletumbles:

yellowpillowcase:

beigency:

itsstuckyinmyhead:

greythegryphon:

masculinityissofragile:

YES LADIES PLEASE DONT BUY THINGS YOU NEED FOR NORMAL BODILY FUNCTIONS AROUND US GUYS.

Am I the only one distressed that he included toothbrushes on this list?

i didn’t reblog this before, but this got better.

so ppl know

I’m so relieved that he wasn’t serious and I’m sure his dentist is too

dude I’ve seen this post a thousand times and I NEVER saw the last bit and I am so shook.

I legitimately thought he was serious before now as well

In our defence, would it really be a shock if somewhere out there are men who seriously believe stuff like “Lol toothpaste is FOR GIRLS”

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just-shower-thoughts:

The only people I hear say “did you just assume my gender” are people doing it ironically, I’ve never heard someone say it for real.

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leggyboy:

suckmyicelandick:

constellation-salad:

dazzling-phan:

aufandomlover:

capri-sunqueen:

just-a-slytherin-with-salt:

tree-of-blue-squirrel:

snovolovac:

rattling-the-stars-in-a-tardis:

madamelibrarian:

soubidou:

multifandom-hoes:

iamatrashfan:

iamatrashfan:

monstersofmemory:

charliejamesnovak:

conniemcfalcon:

thegamerkangaroo:

m4dh4ttey266:

zaku-kazu:

mild-creativity:

ameliapondandrory:

ringo-smile:

yaoi-online:

janaya7609:

yaoi-totally-my-life:

ash-asr:

small-town-ink:

romanoscurl:

inafantasy-wby:

theartofwazzing:

maria-ruta:

bluetiesandflannelshirts:

maria-ruta:

hamburgergod:

maria-ruta:

schottishy:

m-i-y-u-k-i-nyaa:

daitoshi:

all-canadian-striderp:

cheese3d:

cheese3d:

anyone please ask your crush out like this

The thrilling answer

no they need to kiss out behind the school!!!!

oops my hand slipped

nexttttt pleaseee :D

Come on guys add on to this tumblr needs this to be a comic series

I was asked for doing this, so I did

BAM!

I’m out of ideas! XD

next?

THIS IS TOO CUTE I CAN’T LEAVE IT ALONE I’M SORRY

OHHHHHHHHHH MYYYYY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDD!!!!!!!

LOOOK ATT THIIIIS!!!!

LOOOOK ATTT THIIIISS!!!!

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NEEEXT!!!!!

IT HAD TO BE DONE:

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*O*

OH MY GOOD!!!!!

ThAT’S IT!!!!

#0o0#

so yeah

I LOVE THIS

REBLOGGED THIS TWICE

I have a need…..I must add to this…

still waiting for the smut

C’mon guys… it needs some smut

THIS NEEDS TO CONTINUE

SOMEONE PLEASE CONTINUE IT

Not so perfect but still perfect first date

HOLY SHIT I LOVE THIS WITH MY ENTIRE HEART

O HECk IT GOT bETtEr

OMG, THIS IS PERFECT 💖

notes/letters=the most intimate gesture!

THERES MORE

I reblogged this like a year and a half ago and IT CONTINUES!? 

ITS BACK OMG

Omg it’s here!

THIS CUTE I WANNA CONTINUE IT

Ok I tried because this is so cute 

OH MY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDFFDFF

IT GOT EVEN BETTER OMG

This has to be the most adorable thing I’ve seen today. 

This gave me so many happy and cute feels

every time this circles back there’s always more, I love you all 

this warms my heart on so many levels <3

ITS BACK

I’m just sitting here

Hitting my knee

Squealing and smiling omfg

this is now a tumblr web comic, who knows when the next upate is, all we know is its gonna be fucking amazing when it happens 

best thing ever

Traditional style (Sorry the picture quality is really bad) but here is my (super short) update!!

(The text says : Movie? I won’t be late!)

my contribution!

I rarely reblog long posts like this, but this particular collaborative comic thing has been around for /years/, like at least three or four, and it has an update every time I see it. It is a truly pure relic from a simpler time.

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mllemusketeer:

stevita:

elusive-suggestions:

bigmouthlass:

the-life-of-trash-aka-adrian:

gothmollyweasley:

appetitusinvictus:

if you’re a baby gay and this is your first pride, watch your drinks! men are trash across all sexualities

I know boys don’t get these talks so let me clarify:

This doesn’t just mean alcohol

Don’t accept any open drinks

After you get your unopened drink, you keep it in your site

You have to go to the bathroom so you leave your drink on a table? That drink is now dead to you.

You’ve been holding your drink way low out of your eyesight and people are crowding? That drink is now suspect.

Stay safe, babies

Also: Rohypnol (a date rape drug) tastes VERY SALTY. If your drink is suddenly salty, STOP DRINKING IMMEDIATELY. 

Buddy system, y'all. If your friend is acting *way* drunker than they should, take them to an Urgent Care or ER. Date rape drugs can kill you.

always rb

This is a responsibility for bartenders and servers too. I just renewed my alcohol serving license and it’s clearly written out in the final exam: if someone has left their drink unattended and you weren’t keeping an eye on it, or if you see another patron handling their drink, or anything else that looks suspicious, remove the potentially harmful drink and return with a fresh drink. If you think that your guest has been drugged, do what you can within the parameters of your company policy, whether that means getting a manager, calling a car for them, calling police or EMS for them, or, if you have to, taking them back to their house yourself. Protect your guests. 

Also, don’t think men are the only culprits. There are trash wpmen out there too, and a number won’t respect a no.

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if you’re reading this, it’s too late

everystarstorm:

your-instructions-from-moscow:

I already sent good vibes your way… they’re coming. there’s nothing you can do to stop them

This is the most threatening way I’ve ever been cheered up.

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